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                            Look At It This Way
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                            Look At It This Whis Waayy
                            We make some of our greatest gains
                                 When we see old things
                                       In new ways
                            Contact Dr. Mason by email at DrSBMason@aol.com.
                             by Dr. Steve Mason                                                              43

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                             BE HAPPY? MAYBE NOT!
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          Perhaps you’ve heard of a possible  they have enough. There’s no direct        Celebrating Super Lawyer status for 13 years 2007 through 2019
        connection between Happiness and    correlation between the cash in your
        Longevity. Just be happy and you’ll  pocket and the smile on your face.
        live longer. It seems straight forward  Having children doesn’t guarantee
        enough and the opposite seems equally  happiness but having a mate you
        obvious. Be a grouch and your days are  appreciate makes it far more likely.
        sure to be numbered. But is that really  Subjects who drink in moderation tend
        true?                               to be happier while those who smoke            A Sense of Purpose:  Join a Service Group
                                            tend to move in the opposite direction.
          The Pop Psych folks certainly think  Those who sleep approximately eight     If you are looking for a way to give back, support women’s issues and have an
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        section devoted to something called  less.                                 sional women who have agreed to work together serving  their
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        Diet books, they claim fast and easy  Education is interesting because it was
        results. Also similar to Diet books,  generally believed - though it now   in local communities and throughout the world.” We welcome
        they mostly don’t work. You’re      seems erroneously so - that the more   interest from women in Fullerton, La Habra, Placentia, Brea for
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        any thinner. The curious thing is that  the truth seems to be more complicated.
        despite all the books written and TED  Research has shown that women who
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        legitimate research linking happiness  might one account for this? It may be  all programs and other locations.  Collaboration is fun and we have
        and good health.                    that the heightened expectations that  more power when we choose to work together. Think about the
                                            typically come with a diploma are not    difference you can make in the world that surrounds you.
          The Million Woman Study in the    being met. Students taking on decades          For more information, please call 1-949-795-2776
        United Kingdom followed a cohort    of post graduate debt for a degree in a
        averaging 60 years of age for a decade  field with only limited possibilities
        and found there was no solid        could be a factor. And too, a higher level
        connection between happiness and    of learning encourages a higher level of      www.nbynews.com
        longevity. What they did find was that  critical thinking. Perhaps a newer,
        women who reported being healthier  clearer view of the world is not as
        went on to both live longer and be  auspicious as a younger, less educated                Refreshed for the
        happier. So you might say that      woman might have assumed.
        happiness and longer life are
        connected but that’s only true if an  Look At It This Way                            Smart & Savvy Adult
        individual starts off in good health.  Keep in mind that Happiness is a topic
                                            that can fairly be characterized as under-
          In a way, that takes the          researched. Grant money is not low            Don’t want to wait for the mail?
        responsibility off the victim. If you  hanging fruit just waiting to be scooped
        don’t have a naturally cheerful     up by anyone who comes along looking    Email Subscriptions Available
        personality and you don’t wake up   to study things that make for a good
        singing a song it doesn’t mean you’re  time. For that reason, don’t be beset
        doomed. This will, no doubt, come as a  with the burden of being happy 24/7.     Interactive & Informative
        relief to some. But if you want to  Remember that there’s much to be said
        know what does and what doesn’t     for the experience of blue moods, dark
        make people happy, researchers have  poems, somber music and don’t          For Seniors, By Seniors, About Seniors
        found a few connections: Money      forget...an occasional good cry.
        doesn’t make people happier so long as                                                   Check It Out!

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