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                            We make some of our greatest gains
                                 When we see old things
                                       In new ways
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                             by Dr. Steve Mason                                                              43

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                             ACE  TRUCKING
                                                                                                         California State Bar Since 1975
                                                                                         Celebrating Super Lawyer status for 13 years 2007 through 2019
          There’s an old saying: Close only  the competition to go first every time.
        counts in horseshoes and hand      This was the state of the world until
        grenades. Of course, you can always  the 50’s. The USA had the bomb and
        add Nuclear Tipped Missiles. When the  the USSR didn’t so we enjoyed an
        Cold War started and we weren’t    advantage. But then the experimenters
        accustomed to having rockets aimed at  provided a second gate which
        us, people worried about the       mirrored the world scene. Both the
        possibility of World War III. Were  Americans and the Soviets had the              A Sense of Purpose:  Join a Service Group
        humans foolish enough to exchange  bomb.
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        truck affixed to a map. The goal was for  a hot line between nations - only made
        each subject to move their truck along  things worse as heated arguments
        a road going from A to B in the    broke out. It was just like the Cuban  Check out the website at www.soropmist.org to learn more about
        shortest time. Since time was money,  Missile Crises. Both sides continued to  all programs and other locations.  Collaboration is fun and we have
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        quickly realized that there was a  thermonuclear missiles. As the two
        speedy direct route which, when taken,  trucking companies moved toward
        would result in a profit every time.  bankruptcy, the two countries were          www.nbynews.com
        There was also a detour with twists and  getting ever closer to Armageddon.
        turns that would, if taken, lose money
        every time. The problem was that the  Look At It This Way                                 Refreshed for the
        direct route was narrow and could only
        accommodate one truck at a time. The  How would you have handled these
        one that arrived first made more while  situations?  Eventually the two              Smart & Savvy Adult
        the one that got there second made less  truckers went broke with their gates
        but both still made a profit. After  left firmly in place.  One trucker used
        several experiences with both trucks  his phone to say: ”I’ll lose less than      Don’t want to wait for the mail?
        jockeying back and forth to go first, a  you.”  The Missile Crises had a happier
        silent agreement was made and the  ending but just barely.  At the
        trucks alternated.                 time, Dean Rusk was reported to have     Email Subscriptions Available
                                           said: We’re eyeball to eyeball and I
          It was at that point that the    think the other fellow just                   Interactive & Informative
        psychologists gave one subject a gate.  blinked. That was 1962. What has
        If put up, it would force the other  changed since then to make a similar
        subject to lose money taking the   crisis less threatening today?           For Seniors, By Seniors, About Seniors
        detour. The only rational decision was  Anything?  Think about it.
        for the subject without a gate to allow

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